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Hmm where do I start from ? Your book opened my eyes to alot of things I wasn't aware of about myself. It made me truly look deep within myself and ask deep questions. I took away many lessons which am still applying to become a better person. It's a great book, carefully written and am more than happy to recommend it to others. Thank you Lara for writing it. I look forward to your next book but by then I would be reading it in my hubby's house and living #Happilyeverafter😍

Funmi Kehinde

Good morning ma,I haven't gotten the opportunity to say thank you so much,I was able to get your chapter 3 on lies women tell themselves,believe you me,it help me a lot..I was in a relationship where I thought I was never good for anyone,an unhealthy and unhappy relationship.. Reading that chapter was what help me to get my confidence back,believed in myself and walk away,now I'm happy although I'm single but I'm happy I walk away from that relationship.. Thank you so much,love you


Adaeze Igwe

Hello Lara,

Firstly i want to thank you for sending me my copy as promised and also thank you specially for making such a book available for singles who really need guidance and truth on their path to rediscovery. After reading i can honestly relate with all you said and easily identified those areas i need to work on also.

Orobo Iwoje

Hello Lara,
I finished the book yesterday. I can say it will certainly be a blessing to someone who is willing to do an internal review.

Sharing your own personal experience particularly the one with the church fiancé that you had an abortion for. That is not only being vulnerable but being brave. Because we know how judgmental our people are. However, since you have stood in your truth, even the devil cannot use it to blackmail you.

Future generations of women are lucky because this manual is now available that they can use and they will not have to walk in the dark because women like you ahead have shone the light. You need to write a second one.

The writing skills is what is necessary for now. Easy to read, no big grammar, catching and pleasant. Well done.

- Ronke from Lagos.

Hi Lara,

Happy Sunday,

I just finished reading the book "tasting men" and TBH (To Be Honest), it was N3,000 well spent.

I can't over emphasize the fact that you did a tremendous good for the universe by writing this book and telling your own story. I know it must have been a difficult decision but thank you for taking that bold step.

In this book I saw myself, my relationships, my mistakes, my own behavioral issues and of course the way out of that destructive path I am already on.

your "drive-less" ex-boyfriend is my current story. I just ended the relationship albeit societal pressures to marry and reading about your own experience strengthened my stand all the more.

I will be signing up for your therapy sessions, I need it. Especially now that my youngest sibling is set to wed in November and I can't just seem to catch a lucky break with finding the right guy at 29.

Abimbola Badmus

In this Book You Will Discover...

I wrote this book because I wanted to help women understand that though there are terrible men out there, there is a chance of avoiding those ones and actually getting the kind of men that are good for them.

I wrote this book because of my background of having a child at 19, 14 heartbreaks and 15 Abortions before I got married . I groped so much in the dark trying to find love until I found the button that works. Now, it is my honour as Relationship Coach, Matchmaker and Therapist to share all these learnings from my experiences with you in WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY TASTE IN MEN?

Chapter 1 talked about what you should look for a man with the title WHAT DO YOU WANT IN A MAN? as many women do not know exactly what to look for. Most single women are all about money, looks and ephemeral things like that only to cry foul when they can’t find what would secure their true happiness.

Chapter 2 asks the blunt question ARE YOU WORTHY OF YOUR DREAM MAN? It is only fair that that you bring a lot to the table if you really want A LOT. I described in this chapter what your Dream Man wants from you.

Chapter 3 is one of my favourites because it highlights LIES WOMEN TELL THEMSELVES. In this part of the world, lots of single women endure crap and live in fool’s paradise because of the lies they grew up hearing and believing. Some things haven’t worked for time immemorial and they are not about to work now.

Chapter 4 describes in Details THE ANIMAL IN US which talks about the different categories in the Wolf Kingdom. These categorizations has to do with our personalities and why we behave the way we do. These include The Alphas, The Betas and The Omega Males and Females.

Chapter 5 specifically describes THE CLASH OF THE ALPHAS which is why many strong personalities battle it out in relationships. Is the making of a Power Couple like Jay-Z and Beyoncé possible without totally loosing yourself? This is what you would find out in Chapter 5

Chapter 6 explains who THE IRRESISTIBLE WOMAN is. How do you become her? How can you make men see you, experience you and never let you go? I’ll leave you to find out in this Chapter.

Chapter 7 helps you understand the man you should be patient with and the one that you should run away from. HE LOVES ME, HE LOVES ME NOT will leave you more certain of whether a man will take you to the Altar or ditch you pretty soon.

Chapter 8 highlighted my terrible experiences in DITCH THE SAVIOUR MENTALITY. Lots of strong women are attracted to men that they have to build and work on like their work projects. This is what has wrecked so many women leaving them with the bitter taste of heartbreaks after finding out that they are not God but only human beings who cannot repair another human.

Chapter 9 is titled GET HIM NOW because it teaches you how to get your man without him knowing that you are the one getting him. It teaches you how to make him want and get you home to Mama.

Chapter 10 tells you HOW TO GET THE RING because some women have been with a man for so long yet they are not married because the man is keeps them on a leash and yet he isn’t going forward with the wedding and marriage.

This Book is a block buster because it is information that transcends theory. It is a combination of different learnings of about 15 years. I know you would read and send me a thank you note just like many who have read it before you have done.

Lara Kudayisi
The Matchmaking Mistress